Somehow, I can relate to some of my friends’ issues with their Capricorn boyfriends. After having an interesting relationship with a Capricorn man for close to a year, I have discovered the dos and don’ts on how to keep a Capricorn man.
Essentially, the Capricorn male is steady, faithful and dependable. He is very practical and down-to-earth. As such, when it comes to daily life, deal with him with your left brain. He likes strong women, who are dependable, intelligent, charming, elegant and responsible. Most importantly, a woman who is sincere and honest whom he can trust. Yeah, I know it sounds like a tall order, but if you want to keep your Capricorn man, you must win and keep his respect.
For me personally, I rather enjoy our stimulating intellectual discussions of books, politics and issues in life. In disagreements, try not to throw a temper tantrum. It would make him withdraw, and make the discussion of issues difficult.
The Capricorn manlikes it when we can discuss matters coolly and calmly with logical reasoning. He needs an understanding and reasonable woman.
He has very strict moral principles, and hopes to find these qualities in his mate. He looks forward to building a lasting, fulfilling relationship, that can stand the test of time, without becoming dull, or taking each other for granted. However, he is very cautious in his approach, taking his time and making sure that he is certain and does not to give any empty promises that he may not be able to fulfill.
If you want to keep your Capricorn man, you cannot expect him to sweep you off your feet with roses and romantic words of sweet nothings. This is a man that will be able to give you a shelter over your head and keep you warm in winter. But don’t expect all those fancy fluff of romance. If you need something, don’t just hint… don’t give him big hints, don’t even give him obvious hints! Just tell it to him. Spell it out, if you have to! He will be more than happy to meet your need.
There is however, a more tender side to this typically detached Capricorn man. He needs your affections badly. He needs reassurance of your love consistently. While he may be reserved and finds difficulty in showing his feelings, he needs your tenderness, and once his defences have fallen, he will show himself to be infinitely affectionate and attentive.
And…. if you manage to keep your shy sweet Capricorn, you will feel secure in his steadfast love. He would definitely not want to intentionally cause hurt in any way. This is a man worth keeping for the long term.